Seven Signs Your Man Is Not Interested In You

As a woman in a budding relationship, knowing
when your man is well into you might not be such a
difficult thing.
He would often blurt out to his friends how amazing
his girl is and would possibly not spare an opportunity
to spoil you. He would always want to visit or put a
call across to you even for the silliest reasons.
However, knowing when he’s not interested might
not be as easy since most men have a penchant for
being reserved; covert; and sometimes unreadable,
especially when it comes to relationships.
Here are seven signs that your man is not really
interested in you.
He avoids intimacy and physical contact
Avoiding intimate discussions and physical contact are
common ways of showing non-commitment by men.
If you’re always the one doing all the talking during
discussions and he often gives indifferent
affirmations, the ‘hmms and ahs’, then watch out.
Perhaps he’s not really digging you.
He’s not inquisitive about you
When your man incessantly bombs you with
questions about your personal life, it’s a sign he’s
interested in you and wants to know more about
you.
When it’s the other way around, when your hubby
only talks about himself with very little or no interest
in what’s going on with you, then maybe he’s not so
interested in you after all.
He’s not making advances
Here’s another sign he’s not interested in you–when
he’s not making advances, he’s not asking you out on
dates or to have one-on-one moments.
When a man is truly interested in the lady in any
relationship, he would latch onto her and ache to
have personal moments with her as often as he can
to keep the relationship on track.
But when that isn’t the case for you, when the
relationship is progressing in a juiceless manner, then
there are chances you are ‘walking alone’.
Ignoring signals
A popular non-verbal behaviour that is
communicative of disinterest among the male folks in
any budding or potential relationship is the failure to
reciprocate clear signals from their female folks.
A man’s body language readily tells if he’s into you
but in cases where these non-verbal signals are
coming from only you, and your hubby fails to
reciprocate them, then it’s safe to assume he’s not
interested in you after all.
He avoids one-on-one moments
Your man is probably not interested in you if he is in
the habit of evading personal moments with you.
Perhaps he tells you he has an urgent family issue to
rectify or suddenly receives emergency calls when
faced with an alone time with you.
More obvious is when you have a feeling he’s
seeking the company of his friends just to prevent
you from having personal moments with him.
He’s too busy for you
Men in any meaningful relationship have a penchant
for being ‘crazy’ about their partners that they would
go an extra mile to make time for their girl even
amid busy schedules.
In cases when they are genuinely busy, they would
always put obviously needless calls to their lovers
over any slightest reason, just to keep in touch.
However, when your man is often too busy to keep
up with you or is in the habit of being out of contact
for days, then he’s obviously not interested in you or
any romantic relationship you have to offer.
-Culled from TheCable