Never Skip These Before You Marry As A Christian

Today you hear of bridal shower, lovely wedding,
wedding in Dubai, men in Black, she is my queen, he
is my hero, bla bla bla. Then tomorrow, you hear of
divorce: she is a devil, he is a dog, he is a wife
beater, she is a beast, I didn't know she was a witch,
I didn't know he has STD, bla bla bla bla. That is why
you really need to do a proper check before you
marry. In those days where many people were good,
you could easily pick a guy or a lady, and marriage
will work out. But today that is filled with hypocrisy,
you ought to be careful.
I will show you things that you mustn't skip before
you marry your fiance or fiancee.
(1) Test of Love: Until you love and get loved, and
until the love begins to flow without energy, before
you can say you are good to go. If you still put
pressure trying to impress your partner to love you,
please pause first. Something is wrong somewhere.
But when the love flows sweatlessly and selflessly,
then you may proceed to marry.
(2) Test of Fidelity: Some people love, but they are
promiscuous. But promiscuity is not a characteristics
of true love. So if your partner is a promiscuous
cheat, pause the wedding. You can take the person
for spiritual rehabilitation or deliverance before you
proceed with wedding.
(3) Test of Time: Everything, no matter how sweet,
palatable and enticing it may look like, can only be
validated with time. So no matter how you love your
partner or how your partner wishes to marry you,
give it the test of time. Give it time to see if
whatever you feel or whatever is shown is real. As
they normally say "time will tell".
(4) Test of Peace: No matter the sweetness of any
relationship, if there is an internal tension of the mind,
please go back to God to ask questions. Until you
have true and persistent peace, don't marry that
person. When the peace is sure, go and marry.
(5) Test of Availability: Whoever tells you there is
time for love and time for serious business is not a
good partner for you. Love has no schedule! Until you
have much access to enjoying your partners
availability, don't marry. When I talk about
availability here, I don't mean that your partner may
not be in situations were you cannot access each
other, but even when such situations come, you will
still see the urge to be together; not that he or she
will be operating an intentional love on schedule.
(6) Test of Tolerance: Until your imperfections are
swallowed and until you are able to swallow the
imperfections of your partner, don't marry yet.. It is
good to have a large heart, but if you find it so
difficult to take some things from your partner, do not
marry yet until you are able to take it. Marriage is a
very long journey.
(7) Medical Test: Don't assume your partner is good
and you trust yourselves. Seek necessary medical
tests before marriage.
May God help you to have a successful marriage with
a God-fearing person.

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